Dedicated to Sophie
May 1993 - Nov 2007
It’s been a restful day and we have started putting up the decorations for Christmas. My husband is a huge fan of Christmas and loves to have the house decorated as soon as we can. I always feel we should at least wait until after Thanksgiving…but if he had his way we would have the house decorated for Christmas all year long. I have a useful tip for the ladies of the house; guys if you are reading it can just be our secret. I don’t like to decorate for holidays until I have done a thorough house cleaning. So in exchange for my agreement to get the Christmas decorating done, my husband cleaned all the hardwood floors, so ladies don’t forget to negotiate for those good bargains at home. Now before you guys feel too bad for my husband let me tell you our floors have a Swedish oil finish and all you have to do is mop with water mixed with a touch of vinegar…and I have an electric floor cleaner that makes it a snap. But even with those conveniences, I can’t tell you how much I appreciate his help around the house.
As I plan my Halloween projects for the year, I can see some of my ideas will work for both holidays. And I have promised my hubby I’ll make a large Nutcracker prop for next Christmas and a life-size Santa for the year after. I have a beautifully illustrated book with a Nutcracker on the cover that will be my inspiration for the first project. I can see I’m going to be very busy in the studio next year.
When we put up the tree we always light the fire and drink hot chocolate. Our canary, Shakespeare, loves listening to Christmas music, especially if Bing Crosby is signing. Shakespeare adds an extra touch of festivity at Christmas by signing along with the music. We picked him up from the breeder right after Thanksgiving, eight years ago. His first experience with music at our house was the music of Christmas I think that’s why he enjoys it so much. Although Shakespeare loves classical music, and Frank Sinatra, his signing is always most animated when he listens to Christmas music.
Our dog Alistair is a Jack Russel Terrier with boundless energy and more than enough love for everything in life. He is nine years old and spent his first Christmas without his older sister, Sophie, last year. Sophie, our beloved Schnauzer, was six years old when I brought Alistair home. She was absolutely befuddled by this little creature. We had to follow her around with a towel to wipe the drool from her beard for two weeks because she was just so excited and confused by this puppy that all she did was constantly hover over him and drool. They were the best of buddies and it was difficult to put her down. She rests in a special place in my garden. We’ve watched the strangest phenomenon for over a year now. I planted a yellow pansy over her grave. It flowered all that first winter and into the spring. It continued to flower in the hot summer when all the other pansies died out. Sophie’s pansy gets full sun all day long…it should not have survived the summer sun. However, it’s never quit blooming since the day I planted it. In fact, as I write this Blog Sophie’s pansy is blooming just as bright and sunny as her personality was. I like to think it is her way of saying thank you for caring enough to do the right thing for me. She is missed but will never be forgotten.

Now on to the topic of the day. This is the second post of pictures I’m using to evaluate the expression of grief through body language to plan my “Beloved” project. If you are just joining us and want to catch up with this series you can go back to November 28 to start reading from the beginning. The pictures I’m posting today show the mourning figures in a horizontal position, which is the traditional position used for “Beloved” props I’ve seen. I find looking closely at pictures helps me develop a vision in my mind’s eye for how I want my project to look. I may see a hand gesture I like in one, ornamentation in another, fabric draping in another, etc. If these pictures provide a reference for you sometime in the future, then I’m meeting one of my goals for this Blog.




This series will continue tomorrow with a few more pictures of statuary and Tuesday I will begin to look at details of ornamentation. Until next time ….
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